I believe if they have found their second chance in love from a man who has proven his worth, why not. There are still a lot of single moms, those who have been married, came out from a divorce or annulment and those who have never been married but had a child from a previous partner, who are still hoping that one day their prince charming and hopefully Mr. Right will be knocking at their door. There is no harm in dreaming right? But come to think of it should they still marry? Or are they better off in their current status?

A lot of my friends who are now single moms, do not have the longing to get married but if it does happen and everything else falls into place why not. They do not whine and sulk on the thought that they have not found the right guy for them. They do date and go out to unwind and relax but they are not in a search. If ever they do not find the man worthy of their love, they are contended with the love that her child, family and friends shower her. Christmas, New Year, Valentines and other couple occasions are days spent with family and friends. They do not have Mr. Johnny Walker as their companion on a cold night. In other words they feel secure in their situation.

For me, if a marriage proposal comes their way and after seriously assessing their future partner with the conclusion that he is the ONE, then go ahead and build a life together. But their initial concern is that the man they will spend the rest of their life with should genuinely love her child or kids. This can not be seen overnight or in just a few days, it takes time. Obviously they must let their man know that she is not observing him. Of course there is always the possibility that he is putting his best foot forward. His main concern should be to win her child’s heart and she should also constantly consult the feelings and opinions of her child regarding his or her future dad. She should not be so immersed in her desire to have a complete family thus overlooking the relationship of her kid towards her man. Forcing the issue, like just getting married to complete the picture might cause more damage especially to the child. Her child’s feelings towards the possibility of marriage should be her primary concern.

Everyone deserves to be happy. There are no exceptions.

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