There are many young mothers nowadays, most of which are born by the result of teenage pregnancies. They are suddenly faced with a big responsibility, which is to nurture a child and mould him the best person he can be. Most teenage pregnancies are not planned; it is a result of their curious nature and experimental phase. When these girls embark on their adventure they have no idea that the result may be a life changing experience.

Being the child that they are, they are carefree. Their worries are their appearances and wardrobe. Then suddenly, they have a child to raise and care for. Most of them emerge as wonder moms at a tender age but I am sure all of them undergo a metamorphosis. They struggle from leaving their cocoon and turning into a gorgeous butterfly, ready to spread its wings.

In the process, there are several conflicts involved. There is self-conflict. There are a lot of uncertainties that arise in their minds. Let us begin with the change in their body. Often they have a hard time coping with the instability of their hormones, the physical change in their body, change in their sleeping pattern, be it position and time. Also the food they can or can not take and a lot more. There is also the emotional side. At first they may feel pity that they are in such a predicament. Others may feel embarrassed and become insecure and dependent while others realize that they must be proud to be chosen by God to bring a human into life.

There is also conflict with your parents. They may become stricter. Impose more rules. Upon finding your condition, they may at first be angry about it. Actually it is more of disappointment and frustration. Some parents may even blame themselves. They may feel that they have lacked to shower you with enough love and time that is why they looked for it in somebody else. Even just for a fleeting moment. With more rules at home to face, you feel that you want to break free and yet you can not because a life is growing in you. You often miss your friends and the countless parties you attend. You feel exceptionally emotional, now that you are pregnant, you feel deprived and cause you to resent your parents.

Of course there is always sunshine after the rain. You may have been forced to mature because of your new role as a mom, but the fact remains that you are still young at heart. It is better to accept your situation and turn it into a positive aspect of your life. It will make things a lot easier. Everything in life is about perspective.

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